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In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose.
Some were put there to test you…
some would use you (and I learned this the hard way…jeeezzz)
some would teach you
some would bring out the better if not the best in you.
Some may even cause you pain and heartache
BUT one must learn to move on…
so let go of the people who can’t treat you right and hold on to those who love your back and see your worth.
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Just because everything is different doesnt mean anything has changed but…
sometimes you gotta realize when to let things go and not suffocate yourself. yeah things don’t always happen how u plan nor does it work out but don’t let that hold you back. you might think things were good and great but look at it this way, it was fun while it lasted right? you try day in and day out to see if it would go anywhere but you were only fooling yourself. you ignored your instinct and went with what your guts and that’s all it matters. all the time and effort you put into it is
was not a waste because you learned and gained experience on what to do next time.
ask yourself, is it worth pursuing for? if yea then keep trying but expect rejections, disappointment, frustration and more. the truth is, everybody is going to hurt you at one point in your life, you just gotta find the ones who’s worth suffering for. if not then let it go cuz life goes on and it wait for no one. there’s more to life than waiting around on something that might or might not happen. it’s likes a coin flip where your odds are 50/50, head that it might or tails that it might not. which side will you get? that’s up to your luck.
you spent countless nights staying up thinking about what’s going on, why is this happening, how come….this and that. is he/she into you? are you kidding yourself? are they just nice to everyone? theses are questions that you must answer yourself.
trying to get someone’s attention can really wear you out. you initiate only to get rejected major of the time and that really bring a toll on your self esteem but yet you continue to do so. if someone is interested they would at least make an effort or meet you half way but if you initiate or keep conversations goin’ major of the time than you know where you stand. look at it like this, if they could care less then why should you care more? make sense right? don’t make them a priority when you’re only an option. don’t go out of your way for them when they aren’t willing to do the same, don’t pursue something that can’t be caught. don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve cuz you deserve better. now, what you should do is go find someone that will take a chance on you, if they dont then it’s their lose. but at the same time you continue to stick around and try with the same person, what’s the reason? are they that special or interesting? you don’t try with anyone else but THEM, you don’t put any effort with anyone else but THEM, you care for no one else but THEM and somehow that caring turned into telling. the F? now you gotta ask yourself are you gonna try with someone else but THEM? if they’re always focusing on the flaws of a person, they will never see the good a person has to offer. if they never take a chance then they would never know the outcome. who know where it might led. stop thinking about what happened, stop thinking of all the good things when there are plenty of other people out there that will love and appreciate the attention and effort you give. you man up and let the truth come out. lettin’ go is easier said than done but if you are afraid. don’t be. you have all the weapons you need, your friends and family. let it go and it will set you free.
at the end of the day, only you can decide what to do. you either can move on or stick around. sometimes the hardest decision to make is the right one. so which will it be? -
It’s just not fair and it’s tearing me apart you’re just another priceless work of art In his gallery
She’s so confused
She knows she deserves more
Someone who will love and adore
But his money’s hard to ignore
She really doesn’t know what to do
Girl it’s just a matter of time
Before he finds another more fine
After he’s done dulling your shine
You’re out the door and he’s through with you
